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Seattle’s best places to cry in public, mapped

Go on; let it out

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We already know where to cry in public in New York, Boston, San Francisco, D.C., and Philly. But we have plenty to cry about up here in the top left corner, too. It’s a good thing that Seattle, known for its depressing weather, has plenty of spaces to let it all out—for those occasions that you don’t have time to run home and dive under a blanket.

Even better: While there are places to hide and weep throughout the city, plenty are concentrated in the downtown core, just in case you have a terrible workday or night on the town.

Some of these spots mask your sobs with waterfall sounds. Others provide a private respite within an otherwise public spot. But all of these are recommended by Curbed Seattle staff and readership for when you just need a moment.

Did we miss your favorite spot—one you don’t mind blowing up with other emotionally distressed Seattleites? Send us a tip.

Map points are ordered north to south.

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Carkeek Park

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As you approach the beach in this massive North Seattle park, a small overpass looks out over the train tracks and the water—which, on a quieter day, makes great scenery for a sob.

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Hiram M. Chittenden Locks

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Multiple readers recommended the Ballard Locks as a good place for a cry. “Plenty of water moving there,” said Steven Saunders on Twitter.

Woodland Park Rose Garden

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What better backdrop for a dramatic emotional moment than beds of roses?

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University Village restrooms

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The maze that is University Village is enough to tip anyone over the edge. It’s a good thing the bathrooms by the Bartell Drugs—with no code required—mimic the style popularized by the downtown Macy’s, with private stalls and sinks so you can splash water on your face without any questions asked.

Brandon Lee and Bruce Lee's Grave Site

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Any of Seattle’s graveyards make a good crying spot, but the Lees’ gravesites, located in beautiful Lake View Cemetery by Volunteer Park, have an especially picturesque setting.

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Parsons Gardens

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This little hideaway garden has pretty views and not a lot of foot traffic—unless there’s a wedding, and then you can just pretend to be moved.

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Centennial Park Rose Garden

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This rose garden provides a small respite from the rest of the park—”hidden by bushes and the trains cover the noise,” notes Dustin Akers—and if your sadness turns to rage, there’s a little exercise area nearby.

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International Fountain

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On a warm, sunny day, just sit close to the spray. Nobody will be the wiser.

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Myrtle Edwards Park

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Strike out finding a spot at the rose garden? It’s easy to carve out a little bit of this park’s coastline for a little cry—just find a seat nestled among the rocks. Its little pockets of beach make for a good setting, too.

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Viretta Park

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Viretta Park is one of Seattle’s preferred spots for extremely sad tourists, best-known for the Kurt Cobain benches—which, despite being replaced recently, are kind of a makeshift memorial because they’re near what once was Cobain’s house. If you stop here for a sit-and-cry, you will likely be in good company.

Nordstrom Downtown Seattle

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The Macy’s bathroom, with its famous, ultra-private stalls, was a longtime favorite cry spot—but its conversion to office space threw a wrench in that.. It’s a good thing we still have Nordstrom. The third-floor ladies’ lounge or the bottom-floor men’s room are both decent spots.

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Madrona Park

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While Madrona Park is best-known for the beachy area and adjacent lawn, a path takes visitors to more obscured lawns and waterfront benches. If you’re behind the wheel—remember, tear-soaked driving is distracted driving!—a bank of parking spots face the water, making it an ideal place to take a second with a Lake Washington view.

Freeway Park

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Freeway Park is a great little retreat from downtown, and the famous brutalist waterfall is an ideal space to let it out—there’s plenty of seating, and the water helps mask the sound.

Seattle Art Museum

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The stairs going up University Street by the Seattle Art Museum provide makeshift benches for a sit—and a water feature helps mask the sound.

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Central Library Spiral

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There’s usually a place to tuck yourself away among the rows of books at the Central Library’s spiral.

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Washington State Ferries

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Crying on public transportation is a pastime for bus riders. But the sea air from the sun deck of a Washington State Ferry really complements a good cry.

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Waterfall Garden Park

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Conveniently located in Pioneer Square, this walled park is perfect for creating your own waterworks.

Seward Park

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With plenty of benches and water views, Seward Park is a close-to-ideal place to get lost in your feelings.

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Chief Sealth Trail

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“A grassy hill south of Graham Street along the Chief Sealth Trail,” writes Graham on Twitter, recommending a good spot for a cry break. “Looking south you get Rainier on a clear day.”

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Carkeek Park

As you approach the beach in this massive North Seattle park, a small overpass looks out over the train tracks and the water—which, on a quieter day, makes great scenery for a sob.

A post shared by Sarah Cornett (@sarahdcornett) on

Hiram M. Chittenden Locks

Multiple readers recommended the Ballard Locks as a good place for a cry. “Plenty of water moving there,” said Steven Saunders on Twitter.

Woodland Park Rose Garden

What better backdrop for a dramatic emotional moment than beds of roses?

A post shared by Jaclyn LaBrie (@jaclynlabrie) on

University Village restrooms

The maze that is University Village is enough to tip anyone over the edge. It’s a good thing the bathrooms by the Bartell Drugs—with no code required—mimic the style popularized by the downtown Macy’s, with private stalls and sinks so you can splash water on your face without any questions asked.

Brandon Lee and Bruce Lee's Grave Site

Any of Seattle’s graveyards make a good crying spot, but the Lees’ gravesites, located in beautiful Lake View Cemetery by Volunteer Park, have an especially picturesque setting.

A post shared by @x_champurrado_x on

Parsons Gardens

This little hideaway garden has pretty views and not a lot of foot traffic—unless there’s a wedding, and then you can just pretend to be moved.

A post shared by @hoffmanimus on

Centennial Park Rose Garden

This rose garden provides a small respite from the rest of the park—”hidden by bushes and the trains cover the noise,” notes Dustin Akers—and if your sadness turns to rage, there’s a little exercise area nearby.

A post shared by Betta (@kermitbp) on

International Fountain

On a warm, sunny day, just sit close to the spray. Nobody will be the wiser.

A post shared by James Whetzel (@jameswhetzel) on

Myrtle Edwards Park

Strike out finding a spot at the rose garden? It’s easy to carve out a little bit of this park’s coastline for a little cry—just find a seat nestled among the rocks. Its little pockets of beach make for a good setting, too.

A post shared by @what_a_pnw_beach on

Viretta Park

Viretta Park is one of Seattle’s preferred spots for extremely sad tourists, best-known for the Kurt Cobain benches—which, despite being replaced recently, are kind of a makeshift memorial because they’re near what once was Cobain’s house. If you stop here for a sit-and-cry, you will likely be in good company.

Nordstrom Downtown Seattle

The Macy’s bathroom, with its famous, ultra-private stalls, was a longtime favorite cry spot—but its conversion to office space threw a wrench in that.. It’s a good thing we still have Nordstrom. The third-floor ladies’ lounge or the bottom-floor men’s room are both decent spots.

A post shared by AnnaLisa Lang (@_theannaworld) on

Madrona Park

While Madrona Park is best-known for the beachy area and adjacent lawn, a path takes visitors to more obscured lawns and waterfront benches. If you’re behind the wheel—remember, tear-soaked driving is distracted driving!—a bank of parking spots face the water, making it an ideal place to take a second with a Lake Washington view.

Freeway Park

Freeway Park is a great little retreat from downtown, and the famous brutalist waterfall is an ideal space to let it out—there’s plenty of seating, and the water helps mask the sound.

Seattle Art Museum

The stairs going up University Street by the Seattle Art Museum provide makeshift benches for a sit—and a water feature helps mask the sound.

A post shared by Marina (@manohina_marina) on

Central Library Spiral

There’s usually a place to tuck yourself away among the rows of books at the Central Library’s spiral.

A post shared by Tiff (@tiff9to5) on

Washington State Ferries

Crying on public transportation is a pastime for bus riders. But the sea air from the sun deck of a Washington State Ferry really complements a good cry.

A post shared by Melinda Schnyder (@ms_pix) on

Waterfall Garden Park

Conveniently located in Pioneer Square, this walled park is perfect for creating your own waterworks.

Seward Park

With plenty of benches and water views, Seward Park is a close-to-ideal place to get lost in your feelings.

A post shared by Buffy Ritt (@wiggleroomvintage) on

Chief Sealth Trail

“A grassy hill south of Graham Street along the Chief Sealth Trail,” writes Graham on Twitter, recommending a good spot for a cry break. “Looking south you get Rainier on a clear day.”

A post shared by Jason (@thejasonchannel) on